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How to Stand for your Marriage offers fresh insight into the secrets to a happy and fulfilling marriage. 


“This book is recommended family entertainment by The Dove Foundation.”


Are you willing to STAND for your marriage?

 This book is not just for those needing to save their marriage but also for us blessed with healthy happy and balanced marriages.

"Jesus replied, "The hour has come for the Son of Man to be
  Glorified. I tell you the truth, unless a kernel of wheat falls
  To the ground and dies, it remains only a single seed. But if
  It dies, it produces many seeds. The man who loves his life
  Will lose it, while the man who hates his life in this world
  Will keep it for eternal life. Whoever serves me must follow
  me; and where I am, my servant also will be. My Father will
  Honor the one who serves me. 'Now my heart is troubled, and
  What shall I say? 'Father, save me from this hour'? No, it was
  For this very reason I came to this hour. Father, glorify your
  Name!'"  John 12:23-28

South African Ess-jee Rautenbach began working with troubled marriages in 2009 after his own marriage hit turbulent waters. Since then, "covenant marriage restoration" has become his passion. He has seen marriage after marriage after marriage RESTORED and RENEWED through the simple principles outlined in the oldest book known to mankind, the Bible. In the authors first ground-breaking Christian book,  How To Stand For Your Marriage, readers can find the beginnings of new hope for troubled marriages. 

"Stand For Your Marriage" reminds people of God's intention for marriage. Marriage vows are a promise "until death do we part." Scripture teaches us "what God has joined together let no man put asunder." So why has marriage become disposable? It certainly isn't the will of God and if it isn't of God it must be the will of Satan. Ess-Jee Rautenbach stands firm on God's purpose and offers hope for floundering marriages. 
All marriages go through rocky periods. However, that does not mean we are released from our vows, responsibilities or commitments. Divorce does not hurt only the husband and wife but their children, grandchildren, parents, siblings, and friends. Rautenbach reminds us that we have a great authority to turn to when our marriage falls apart. Instead we turn to friends, family and the therapist for their advice and comfort.

I am impressed with the message of this book. The plot is based on scripture. I agree with the author's point of view. I truly believe that God can breathe life back into dry bones. I agree that Christianity is more than a religion; it is a way of life.
All in all, good read. Kudos to the author for offering his guidance to we who desperately need it, and for sharing pieces of his own Standing journey.

"If anyone would come after me, he must deny himself and take
  Up his cross and follow me. For whoever wants to save his life
  Will lose it, but whoever loses his life for me and for the
  Gospel will save it. What good is it for a man to gain the
  Whole world, yet forfeit his soul? Or what can a man give in
  Exchange for his soul? If anyone is ashamed of me and my words
  In this adulterous and sinful generation, the Son of Man will
  Be ashamed of him when he comes in his Father's glory with the
  Holy angels."  Mark 8:34-38
 
E Mail: essjeemobile@gmail.com, essjee@standforyourmarriage.org
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