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How to Stand for your Marriage offers fresh insight into the secrets to a happy and fulfilling marriage. 


“This book is recommended family entertainment by The Dove Foundation.”


Are you willing to STAND for your marriage?

 This book is not just for those needing to save their marriage but also for us blessed with healthy happy and balanced marriages.

"Jesus replied, "The hour has come for the Son of Man to be
  Glorified. I tell you the truth, unless a kernel of wheat falls
  To the ground and dies, it remains only a single seed. But if
  It dies, it produces many seeds. The man who loves his life
  Will lose it, while the man who hates his life in this world
  Will keep it for eternal life. Whoever serves me must follow
  me; and where I am, my servant also will be. My Father will
  Honor the one who serves me. 'Now my heart is troubled, and
  What shall I say? 'Father, save me from this hour'? No, it was
  For this very reason I came to this hour. Father, glorify your
  Name!'"  John 12:23-28

South African Ess-jee Rautenbach began working with troubled marriages in 2009 after his own marriage hit turbulent waters. Since then, "covenant marriage restoration" has become his passion. He has seen marriage after marriage after marriage RESTORED and RENEWED through the simple principles outlined in the oldest book known to mankind, the Bible. In the authors first ground-breaking Christian book,  How To Stand For Your Marriage, readers can find the beginnings of new hope for troubled marriages. 


 
E Mail: essjeestand@gmail.com
Websites: https://fwlifecoaching.com/
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